Today we'll be talking a little bit about online dating. For the meantime let's forget about pinay scandal. This topic would be geared more towards single gentlemen still waiting for Miss Perfect to come along the way. Waiting to Meet Miss Perfect? Wow, this must be really tough. To this guys, do you think you are just a victim of bad luck and that’s the reason the Perfect lady hasn’t appeared in your life yet? On the other way, have you decided that maybe Miss Lady Perfect only exists on movie screens and not out here in the real world? By now, you should have got what I mean. You're right, she doesn’t exist anywhere except in your imagination and on movie screens.
Well, the bare truth is that the reason Ms. Perfect hasn't appeared has nothing to do with your luck, either good or bad, but everything to do with you and the fact that you are busy looking for a person that doesn't exist! You can't date with your eyes closed and some impossible dream in your head. You'll get so caught up in this whole exercise of dating that you forget to look for the qualities you seek! You haven't met the person of your dreams because you aren't looking for the things that will make them close enough to perfect for you.
You are so confident that every woman you have met could not give you what you wanted. But what was it that you wanted in the first place? Once you are sure of what you want, you will know exactly what to look for in your woman. What are the qualities that you feel are necessary in a person? What are the attributes you are willing to make a compromise on? Have you thought about all these?
Keep in mind that nobody on this earth is perfect. Everybody has shortcomings and faults, some are bigger faults than other faults. Some are faults you can overlook and some are faults that you couldn’t overlook on your best day and if she was the most beautiful, most sexy woman on the planet.
This is something you guys should remember, when you meet a woman however hard you try to impress them, you can't control their thought processes. Instead of trying to impress or being controlled by your own expectations it’s far better to concentrate on your needs and desires, and how much of what you need would be fulfilled if you dated this woman. Have a good day finding your not perfect but lovable woman.
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